是的，有这样一种虐待，你通常发现不了。它在心理学上有个术语，叫 gaslighting，直译过来是“用煤气灯照你”。　　　　Gaslighting is a harmful form of psychological abuse in which a person or entity attempts to gain power over others by purpo

　　是的，有这样一种虐待，你通常发现不了。它在心理学上有个术语，叫 gaslighting，直译过来是“用煤气灯照你”。　　　　Gaslighting is a harmful form of psychological abuse in which a person or entity attempts to gain power over others by purpo

　　About 15 years ago, I was asked to serve on the board of a nonprofit that I had been affiliated with for many years. I chaired a particularly contentious meeting and used a lot of humor to break the tension in a way that defused some of

TURKEY AND HAM Sydney chef Travis Harvey advises carving all turkey and ham from the bone after Christmas to ensure it stays fresh. As long as they are carved shortly after cooking, slices of turkey and ham can be stored in the freezer in

The way people walk can provide clues about their personality, claims a new study. 一项最新研究显示，走路的方式可以透露一个人的性格。 Using motion capture technology, researchers found that movements reveal certain personality traits, suc

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我们能让这世界变得更美好么？这句话本身就是一个错误的假设，认为这世界不好。反过来，我们应该说世界就是这样的，没有什么绝对的好与不好。这是我们选择的生活方式，也是我们喜欢的生活方式。换个角度看待事物：接受并试着理解。接受这世界，你会快乐。“Th

Recognize the importance of expressing emotions. Unexpressed emotions affect your life. For example, many people who struggle with ongoing depression or anxiety are often actually angry. Because the unexpressed anger has nowhere to go, the