《欢乐颂》中帅气多金的“小包总”深入人心，也让该角色的饰演者杨烁走进了不少观众的视野。
从那以后，杨烁也演绎了好一些“霸道总裁”形象↓↓↓
（不过，这样的“霸道总裁”，有时也令不少观众有“用力过猛”之感↓↓↓）
而最近，杨烁还因为自己“霸道总裁范儿”的育儿模式上了热搜，引发一阵热议……
前段时间，亲子真人秀《爸爸去哪儿6》改名为《一起出发吧》，在芒果TV国际版播出了。演员杨烁也带着自家七岁的儿子杨雨辰和两岁的女儿杨雨曦上了节目。
在节目中，与对待小女儿时的那份温柔不同，杨烁对儿子杨雨辰要求十分严格，态度也很凶。
The anticipated sixth season of Let's Go! is finally out! If that title is unfamiliar, you may know its previous one: Where Are We Going, Dad?
While it's quite normal for viewers to fawn over the endearing relationships between the dads and their kids, one such exception is actor Yang Shuo, who joins the show with his son and daughter. Yang Shuo has seen a wave of backlash due to what netizens are calling a "dictatorial" style of parenting toward his son.
第一期，在下车步行到目的地的短短几分钟内，他先后对小雨辰的着装、速度、步行姿势提出要求。
因为孩子没有往他下车的方向走，就命令孩子重走一遍他走过的路……
因为孩子走路时有点内八，“脚尖没有冲前”，还要求孩子退回去重走一遍……
到了选房子环节，杨烁要选1号，杨雨辰选5号，结果5号最远。杨烁立刻开启嘲讽模式，一路都在讽刺杨雨辰“选得好”……
总之，一路上小雨辰都过得战战兢兢，不知道怎么才能让自己的爸爸满意。
但其实，总是被父亲训斥的小雨辰是个聪明又懂事的孩子：他会主动照顾一起做任务的弟弟妹妹↓↓↓
古诗也背得相当不错~
而杨烁也在种种细节处关心着儿子，与其说他是冷酷到底的严父，倒不如说他更像是一个不懂得如何把“爱”说出口，刀子嘴豆腐心的爸爸。
他也在节目中对自己对待儿子如此严厉的态度进行了解释：“对儿子就得严厉教育”、“男人肩上的担子就是比别人要重”……
只是不知道，对于爸爸的这一番用心，只有7岁的小雨辰能够明白多少……
While chiding his son Yang Yuchen for being slow, Yang Shuo can be heard raising his voice and barking orders like, "Faster," "Fix your clothes, "Walk properly." At one point, Yang Shuo wasn't satisfied with his son's walking so he asked him to run back up an uphill pavement then walk down again with proper posture. However, as strict as he is, Let's Go also shows Yang Shuo's caring side as he gently guides his son up a set of stairs.
Nonetheless, his style rubs many netizens the wrong way, with some saying that Yuchen will develop anxiety from Yang Shuo's way of talking.
很快，杨烁这样全程“冷嘲热讽＋语言暴力”育儿模式引发了网友的热议，有不少网友都看不下去了↓↓↓
就连在节目中一向以“严父”著称的“大哥”陈小春似乎都觉得有点过……
也有网友觉得孩子不能惯着，就该好好管教↓↓↓
还有一些网友跑到杨烁妻子王黎雯的微博下留言“告状”diss杨烁，并让她一定要保护好孩子。
被骂上热搜的杨烁明显坐不住了。12月24日凌晨两点，他在妻子的微博下留言回应：“你们的批评教育我会虚心接受，但能不能屈尊挪挪步，到我（微博）那儿去讨论？我老婆持家带娃实属不易，就别给她添堵了。”
Yang Shuo - and his wife - was flooded with messages and criticques on Weibo, so he recently responded with a comment urging them to stop bothering her.
He also thanked everyone for their constructive criticism and said that he will accept it with an open mind. However, he requested that they comment directly on his Weibo page instead. His wife works hard, he says, and it would be better not to bombard her with such comments. Yang Shuo goes on to apologize to his wife, their kids, and their parents, joking in the end that the washboard is coming through the mail, his wife can help his son decide how long to make him (Yang Shuo) kneel as punishment.
而像杨烁这样近乎严苛的“打击式教育”，对一些家长而言或许并不陌生。
一些网友也从杨烁的育儿方式上，唤起了自己的“童年噩梦”↓↓↓
就像电视剧《小欢喜》中窒息的一幕：英子从第一名下降到第二名，就被妈妈宋倩严厉地数落：“这次考成这样了，那下次呢？下下次呢？高考呢？”
虽说现如今，将“棍棒底下出孝子”“不打不成器”奉为圭臬，将孩子视为父母的私产，不尊重孩子人格的育儿理念，已经与社会主流的育儿理念格格不入。
不过，前有耶鲁大学华裔教授唱响虎妈战歌，后有“中国狼爸”,“三天一顿打，孩子进北大”。“虎妈狼爸”的严格教育理念，依然不时能掀起一阵波澜。
“虎妈”一词最早源于2011年。当时，身为耶鲁大学法律系教授的美籍华裔母亲蔡美儿（Amy Chua）出版了一部自传式作品《虎妈战歌》，讲述了中国母亲严格的育儿方法。
The term “tiger mother” first came to prominence in 2011 when Amy Chua, a Chinese-American mother and Yale University law professor, wrote the book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, a story that touches on the typically strict upbringing methods of Chinese mothers.
书中，蔡美儿描绘了自己对于两个女儿的教育方式。
比如说，不能有一门课的成绩低于A，不允许看电视或者玩电脑……
而这样的“育儿法”，在美国也引发了一阵热议。
In the book, Chua described how she educated her two daughters, demanding that they become the top students in school for every subject except gym and drama. She also wrote about how her daughters were never allowed to score grades less than an A, and were banned from watching television or playing computer games. The book triggered heated debates in China and the United States, with Western audiences perceiving that Chua was advocating the Chinese methodology as the superior style of parenting.
在虎妈的教育下，两个女儿都成为了顶级藤校精英，并且对自己的未来也有清晰的规划，是不折不扣的“天之骄女”。
大女儿索菲亚本科斩获哈佛offer，研究生就读于耶鲁法学院，今年还被美国最高法院聘为大法官布雷特·卡瓦诺的书记员。
小女儿露露也在哈佛大学就读，绩点达到了3.9。
但并非所有“虎妈狼爸”的教育方法都能取得成功。
《人民日报》官方微博在谈到虎妈式教育时曾评论到，教育不是生产零件，样样都“标配”，样样都不能“脱节”。其实，童年的快乐对于塑造人格更重要。
教育或许就是这样，从来没有一个“1+1=2”这样放诸四海而皆准的标准答案。有的孩子，能够棍棒底下出孝子、出才子。有的孩子，却可能在父母的戾气下，滋生逆反心理，产生可能伴随终生的心理阴影。家庭教育很大程度上决定了孩子的人生。决定孩子一生的不是学习成绩，而是健全的人格和健康的心态。
什么才是好的教育方式，这个问题的答案，很可能需要用孩子一生的成长经历来回答。
综合来源：China Daily, Drama Panda, Associated Press，环球时报，环球人物，新京报，澎湃新闻
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