Make sure your love is unconditional. Make sure you love people in all kinds of "weather". Or else what is the use if we love a person only when he is good or she is nice? When I need the people most that's when they leave me. All the time. So please, I hope you won't be like that. We always have to consider the other party, your companion's situation and mood. Maybe he's in difficulty right now. That's why his mood is not so sweet. Maybe she has so much work to do and so many headaches, so she cannot be so darling like usual. That time is the time when we need to show our most noble quality, the way we want ourselves to be.
It's not that if you are sweet to that person then he will love you more. Maybe he will, maybe he won't. But that is not the point to be good and to be noble. To be good, to be noble is for ourselves because we choose to be that way, we want to keep being that way, and we feel good
But most of the time we fail the test. When people are in most difficulty, we just leave them, or we are cold and indifferent. "Oh, you're not nice to me. All right, all right. You'll come and need me soon." Of course they will. When they're in a better mood, when everything goes better, of course they'll come around. But then it's too late. Then it is not love anymore. It's just a need for each other. That's different, because you are used to each other and you need each other sometimes out of habit, out of convenience, out of financial security reasons -- anything. But it's not true love.
相关单词：unconditional
unconditional解释：adj.无条件的，无限制的，绝对的
unconditional例句：
The victorious army demanded unconditional surrender.胜方要求敌人无条件投降。
My love for all my children is unconditional.我对自己所有孩子的爱都是无条件的。
相关单词：difficulty
difficulty解释：n.困难，费劲；难事，难题；麻烦，困境
difficulty例句：
If there is any difficulty,please let us know promptly.倘有困难，请迅速通知我们。
A little difficulty like this is nothing to us.这点困难算不了什么。
相关单词：noble
noble解释：n.贵族；adj.高贵的，高尚的，贵族的，辉煌的
noble例句：
He is a noble man,we all admire him.他是一个道德高尚的人，我们都敬佩他。
Niagara falls is a noble sight.尼亚加拉瀑布是一壮观的景色。
相关单词：sympathy
sympathy解释：n.同情，赞同，同感，慰问，吊唁
sympathy例句：
He felt great sympathy for these people.他很同情这些人。
Sympathy is his best quality.同情心是他最好的品质。
相关单词：indifferent
indifferent解释：adj.冷漠的，不关心的，不积极的；一般的
indifferent例句：
Her English is indifferent.她的英文很一般。
His manner was cold and indifferent.他的态度既冷淡又无动于衷。
相关单词：security
security解释：n.安全，安全感；防护措施；保证(金)，抵押(品)；债券，证券
security例句：
A security guard brought him down with a flying tackle.一名保安人员飞身把他抱倒。
There was tight security at the airport when the President's plane landed.总统的专机降落时，机场的保安措施很严密。
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