I live in Hollywood. You may think people in such a glamorous（迷人的）, fun-filled place are happier than others. If so, you have some mistaken ideas
Many intelligent people still equate（等同） happiness with fun. The truth is that fun and happiness have little or nothing in common. Fun is what we experience during an act. Happiness is what we experience after an act. It is a deeper, more abiding emotion.
Going to an amusement park or ball game, watching a movie or television, are fun activities that help us relax, temporarily forget our problems and maybe even laugh. But they do not bring happiness, because their positive effects end when the fun ends.
I have often thought that if Hollywood stars have a role to play, it is to teach us that happiness has nothing to do with fun. These rich, beautiful individuals have constant access to glamorous parties, fancy cars, expensive homes, everything that spells "happiness".
But in memoir after memoir, celebrities reveal the unhappiness hidden beneath all their fun: depression, alcoholism, drug addiction, broken marriages, troubled children, profound loneliness.
The way people cling to the belief that a fun-filled, pain-free life equates happiness actually diminishes their chances of ever attaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equated with happiness, then pain must be equated with unhappiness. But, in fact, the opposite is true: More times than not, things that lead to happiness involve some pain.
As a result, many people avoid the very endeavors that are the source of true happiness. They fear the pain inevitably brought by such things as marriage, raising children, professional achievement, religious commitment, civic or charitable work, and self-improvement.
相关单词：glamorous
glamorous解释：adj.富有魅力的；美丽动人的；令人向往的
glamorous例句：
The south coast is less glamorous but full of clean and attractive hotels.南海岸魅力稍逊，但却有很多干净漂亮的宾馆。
It is hard work and not a glamorous job as portrayed by the media.这是份苦差，并非像媒体描绘的那般令人向往。
相关单词：equate
equate解释：v.同等看待，使相等
equate例句：
You can't equate passing examination and being intelligent.你不能把考试及格看成是聪明。
You cannot equate his poems with his plays.你不可以把他的诗歌和他的剧本相提并论。
相关单词：abiding
abiding解释：adj.永久的，持久的，不变的
abiding例句：
He had an abiding love of the English countryside.他永远热爱英国的乡村。
He has a genuine and abiding love of the craft.他对这门手艺有着真挚持久的热爱。
相关单词：memoir
memoir解释：n.[pl.]回忆录，自传；记事录
memoir例句：
He has just published a memoir in honour of his captain.他刚刚出了一本传记来纪念他的队长。
In her memoir,the actress wrote
相关单词：celebrities
celebrities解释：n.（尤指娱乐界的）名人( celebrity的名词复数 )；名流；名声；名誉
celebrities例句：
He only invited A-list celebrities to his parties. 他只邀请头等名流参加他的聚会。
a TV chat show full of B-list celebrities 由众多二流人物参加的电视访谈节目
相关单词：addiction
addiction解释：n.上瘾入迷，嗜好
addiction例句：
He stole money from his parents to feed his addiction.他从父母那儿偷钱以满足自己的嗜好。
Areas of drug dealing are hellholes of addiction,poverty and murder.贩卖毒品的地区往往是吸毒上瘾、贫困和发生谋杀的地方。
相关单词：equates
equates解释：v.认为某事物（与另一事物）相等或相仿( equate的第三人称单数 )；相当于；等于；把（一事物） 和（另一事物）等同看待
equates例句：
He equates success with material wealth. 他认为成功等同于物质财富。 来自《简明英汉词典》
This equates to increased and vigor, better sleep and sharper mental acuity. 也就是说可以起到增强活力，改善睡眠，提高心智的作用。 来自互联网
相关单词：attaining
attaining解释：（通常经过努力）实现( attain的现在分词 )； 达到； 获得； 达到（某年龄、水平、状况）
attaining例句：
Jim is halfway to attaining his pilot's licence. 吉姆就快要拿到飞行员执照了。
By that time she was attaining to fifty. 那时她已快到五十岁了。
相关单词：equated
equated解释：adj.换算的v.认为某事物（与另一事物）相等或相仿( equate的过去式和过去分词 )；相当于；等于；把（一事物） 和（另一事物）等同看待
equated例句：
Production costs for the movie equated to around 30% of income. 这部电影的制作成本相当于收益的30%。
Politics cannot be equated with art. 政治不能同艺术等同起来。
相关单词：inevitably
inevitably解释：adv.不可避免地；必然发生地
inevitably例句：
In the way you go on,you are inevitably coming apart.照你们这样下去，毫无疑问是会散伙的。
Technological changes will inevitably lead to unemployment.技术变革必然会导致失业。
相关单词：civic
civic解释：adj.城市的，都市的，市民的，公民的
civic例句：
I feel it is my civic duty to vote.我认为投票选举是我作为公民的义务。
The civic leaders helped to forward the project.市政府领导者协助促进工程的进展。
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