A man is known by the company he keeps they say. If it is so,then everyone is bound to have their baggage of loneliness with them as companions. Loneliness is not something that doesn't exist at all with any human being on earth. Every human being feels lonely in his life at some point or other. It's but natural to have such feeling, because that's what makes us all human and that is why we are as we are now.
If we shed some light on why we feel aloof or lonely at times, we would be very much astonished or even probably surprised by the results. We ourselves are responsible for our selfdefined gloominess. This is because at times we really feel that we are uncared for or feel someone doesn't understand us.
Sometimes we over analyze real life situations and have this growing sense of self pity inside us. This feeling always gives us thoughts which picturise us always receiving the wrong end of the stick in life. The truth might not always be true if we touch our heart and see. Its just that our expectations in life and from people around us or circumstances that we are facing, have got the better of us. Expectation is the silent killer which murders millions of mushy and time tested relationships. If there would have been no expectations from anyone, the world would have been a much better place to be. If there would have been no expectationds,not many people would have had an aching heart and a life long grouse against there would have been better haves. If it wouldn't have been for unreasonable expectations not many couples would have divorced each other.
How to come out of expectations them? Good question. The answer is when you give something, don't expect anything in return. When our mother gave birth to us, she never expected that we will give birth to her. She has just fulfilled her desire to raise a family and live for them. In the same way, let our actions make us live for our self and let not expectation screw up the major portion of your lives. Let us have the freedom and will power to express our love, affection and longingness for people whenever we feel. Let us not restrict our freedom of
Well all in all a little bit of loneliness is good for a self-analysis to keep a check over your actions. Introspection always makes you communicate with the innerself, but too much of introspection can make you scale the altitude of self pity. So show restrain at the right time.
相关单词：aloof
aloof解释：adj.远离的；冷淡的，漠不关心的
aloof例句：
Never stand aloof from the masses.千万不可脱离群众。
On the evening the girl kept herself timidly aloof from the crowd.这小女孩在晚会上一直胆怯地远离人群。
相关单词：analyze
analyze解释：vt.分析，解析 (=analyse)
analyze例句：
We should analyze the cause and effect of this event.我们应该分析这场事变的因果。
The teacher tried to analyze the cause of our failure.老师设法分析我们失败的原因。
相关单词：killer
killer解释：n.杀人者，杀人犯，杀手，屠杀者
killer例句：
Heart attacks have become Britain's No.1 killer disease.心脏病已成为英国的头号致命疾病。
The bulk of the evidence points to him as her killer.大量证据证明是他杀死她的。
相关单词：grouse
grouse解释：n.松鸡；v.牢骚，诉苦
grouse例句：
They're shooting grouse up on the moors.他们在荒野射猎松鸡。
If you don't agree with me,please forget my grouse.如果你的看法不同，请不必介意我的牢骚之言。
相关单词：unreasonable
unreasonable解释：adj.不讲道理的，不合情理的，过度的
unreasonable例句：
I know that they made the most unreasonable demands on you.我知道他们对你提出了最不合理的要求。
They spend an unreasonable amount of money on clothes.他们花在衣服上的钱太多了。
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