给女生的15条恋爱守则

1. Their relationship will not take up 100% of their life, but they will put 100% into their relationship. It's important to ambitious girls to have other priorities and things going on outside of their relationship. But that doesn't mean they won't give it their all when it comes to being happy with someone.

2. They're not looking for a challenge, but they are looking for someone to challenge them. They're not interested in the chase or winning the game. But they're interested in being with someone who's going to challenge them to be better and to grow every day.

3. Romance usually means something different to ambitious girls. They love dates and surprises just like the next girl. But in their minds, the most romantic thing in the world is being with someone who they can truly relate to, and someone who supports them in everything that they do.

4. They're not afraid to tell you when they like you. If they think this thing has a chance, they're not going to sit back and play coy and always wait for you to make the first move. They're going to be straight-up with you, and you can do with that what you want.

5. They don't play games. There's no "wait two hours to text back" guidelines that they believe they have to follow. Ambitious girls do what they want when they want, because they don't have time for arbitrary dating rules.

6. They'll still have a lot of other things going on besides you. They take dating seriously. But they're also passionate about their careers and friends and family and hobbies. When they're dating, ambitious girls are looking for someone who's not only going to support that, but someone who's going to love them all the more for it.

7. They don't hold it against you if you're not interested. They know what they want, and if you're not interested, they're just happy that you're not wasting any more of their time.

8. They're not looking to be a trophy wife. The idea of playing backseat to their companion is nauseating to an ambitious girl. They're looking for someone who is going to be their partner, not their leader.

9. Ambitious girls know that being tough and being emotional aren't mutually exclusive. Ambitious girls are strong, confident, and intelligent. They know how to handle themselves. But they're aware that that doesn't mean they can't be vulnerable or emotional. One of the reasons they feel comfortable dating is because they know how to be tough without feeling the need to apologize for having emotions.

10. A good conversation in their eyes doesn't revolve around how much money you make or how successful you are. They're more interested in hearing what makes you tick, what inspires you, what gets your blood flowing, and what you're passionate about.

11. They know that sometimes they have a hard time opening up in the beginning. They're used to being in control, so when they're not, it's a little disorienting. But they enjoy the challenge of trying to get better, so it's something they're always keen to work on.

12. They won't ask you to choose between them and your other priorities, because they're too busy having priorities of their own.

13. Ambitious girls are attracted to people who have goals and aspirations - people who want more than an average existence. They don't need you to be the CEO of a Fortune 500 or an insanely successful entrepreneur. They just want to know you care about something that matters and are willing to work for it.

14. They're not going to wait forever. They'll let you know, one way or another, that they like you. They're never in a rush to jump into a relationship, but they're also practical about where they are in their lives and when it's time to move on. If you like them, do something about it.

15. They're less worried about a fairytale romance and more concerned with finding someone who will simply make them happy. They're not preoccupied with a huge diamond ring, an over-the-top wedding, and a ridiculous love story they can tell their friends. They just want to be with someone who will love them for who they are, and never ask them to stop following their dreams.

相关单词：passionate

passionate解释：adj.热情的，热烈的，激昂的，易动情的，易怒的，性情暴躁的

passionate例句：

He is said to be the most passionate man.据说他是最有激情的人。

He is very passionate about the project.他对那个项目非常热心。

相关单词：trophy

trophy解释：n.优胜旗，奖品，奖杯，战胜品，纪念品

trophy例句：

The cup is a cherished trophy of the company.那只奖杯是该公司很珍惜的奖品。

He hung the lion's head as a trophy.他把那狮子头挂起来作为狩猎纪念品。

相关单词：nauseating

nauseating解释：adj.令人恶心的，使人厌恶的v.使恶心，作呕( nauseate的现在分词 )

nauseating例句：

I had to listen to the whole nauseating story. 我不得不从头到尾听那令人作呕的故事。 来自《现代汉英综合大词典》

There is a nauseating smell of rotten food. 有一股令人恶心的腐烂食物的气味。 来自《简明英汉词典》

相关单词：revolve

revolve解释：vi.(使)旋转；循环出现

revolve例句：

The planets revolve around the sun.行星绕着太阳运转。

The wheels began to revolve slowly.车轮开始慢慢转动。

相关单词：aspirations

aspirations解释：强烈的愿望( aspiration的名词复数 )； 志向； 发送气音； 发 h 音

aspirations例句：

I didn't realize you had political aspirations. 我没有意识到你有政治上的抱负。

The new treaty embodies the aspirations of most nonaligned countries. 新条约体现了大多数不结盟国家的愿望。

相关单词：preoccupied

preoccupied解释：adj.全神贯注的，入神的；被抢先占有的；心事重重的v.占据（某人）思想，使对…全神贯注，使专心于( preoccupy的过去式)

preoccupied例句：

He was too preoccupied with his own thoughts to notice anything wrong. 他只顾想着心事，没注意到有什么不对。

The question of going to the Mount Tai preoccupied his mind. 去游泰山的问题盘踞在他心头。 来自《简明英汉词典》

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