Often we're told that we have to suffer now — give up what we want — in order to succeed later, that in order to save we must sacrifice. Give up instant gratification to get delayed gratification.But you can do both.For years, I was confu

Often we're told that we have to suffer now - give up what we want - in order to succeed later, that in order to save we must sacrifice. Give up instant gratification（满意，喜悦） to get delayed gratification.  But you can do both. For

John, a famous musician, took his priceless antique zither（奇特琴） and played it in the crowded subway station. The music emanating from（放射，出自） the zither was delicately streaming throughout the whole station. However, during the o

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal wit